Bar Harbor Club

Rehearsal Dinner

Bar Harbor Club -  Pool House Dining Room

Welcome Party

Bar Harbor Club - Stotesbury Ballroom

Ceremony

Wedding Celebration

Bar Harbor Beer Works

After Party

Events

We can't wait to tie the knot and celebrate with you all! All of the events are located on site at the Bar Harbor Club. The Bar Harbor Club is right in Downtown Bar Harbor on the coast. See you there!

Our Wedding

Merrill and Tom first met on a Friday evening in September of 2019 at LFK, a cozy local bar in Portland, Maine. Merrill had just returned from a week of conducting wetland delineations in Downeast Maine, while Tom was nearly recovered from lacrosse-injured shoulder surgery. Over shared plates of chicken nachos, cold beers, and conversations about their college sports and skiing, they discovered an instant connection. When Tom asked to join Merrill and her friends at their next stop, Munjoy Hill Tavern, the spark between them only grew stronger. A walk through Portland that night sealed the deal — they were both smitten. Tom was captivated by Merrill’s charisma, sense of humor, self-assurance, and adventurous spirit while Merrill was drawn to Tom’s confidence, infectious laugh, inquisitiveness, and soft blue eyes. Their relationship blossomed through weekends exploring Maine’s ski mountains, sampling new restaurants around Portland, venturing to coastal towns, and camping in the back of Tom’s Volkswagen — even during snowstorms in rural USPS parking lots. Six years later, after a cross-country move to Colorado and countless adventures together, Tom proposed atop the Sapporo TV Tower during a trip to Japan. Merrill couldn’t wait to say “yes!” They now look forward to a lifetime of shared adventures, laughter, and love. Most of all, they are deeply grateful for the support and joy they’ve found in their family and friends — and they can’t wait to celebrate with all of you.

Merrill & Tom's Story

Our Story

Proposal in Sapporo

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Photos

Bridesmaids

Grace Florsheim

Sam Feenstra

Samantha Tenner

Madeline Read

Katie Whitlock

Katherine Engman

Zoe Costomiris

Gracie Culver

Riley Whitmyer

Kallie Stahlhuth

Hollister Olson

Sophie Price

Groomsmen

Dennis Frank

Alex Read

Andy Read

Calean Houle

Jordan Peterson

Ethan Duperre

James Monroe-Chausse

Wedding Party

Q + A

The Harborside Hotel, where the venue is, doesn't offer a formal "room block" for the wedding, just a small discount code. Please feel free to stay anywhere in Downtown Bar Harbor, as there are many Hotels, Inns, Bed &amp; Breakfasts, and rentals that are walkable to the venue. A great way to look for additional stay locations is <a href="https://www.staybarharbor.com/bar-harbor.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Stay Bar Harbor</a>!

This hotel is connected to the wedding venue and will be the most convenient option. Please note that they require a 3-night minimum. A small discount code is included in the attached link for booking. Searching without the code will also show additional hotel room options.

Harborside Hotel, Spa & Marina

The sweetest B&amp;B, directly across the street from the wedding venue! Located just steps from the harbor on historic West Street, Sand Bar Cottage offers a variety of fully renovated rooms and cottages, welcoming you to a boutique lodging experience seamlessly blending old-world charm with modern luxury. Delicious included breakfast!

Sand Bar Cottage

This hotel is across the street from the venue! These hotel accommodations marry classic northeast aesthetics, resort-style perks, and residential comforts.

West Street Hotel

Five minutes walk from the wedding venue, this iconic Inn is located on the shores of Frenchman Bay with exquisite views of the Atlantic Ocean, impeccable lawns and gardens, and time-honored New England accommodations.

Bar Harbor Inn & Spa

The Wonder View Inn is a pet-friendly property just up the road from the venue. It is a 15-minute walk from the venue.

Wonder View Inn

Historic Bed & Breakfast that was spared from the 1947 fires!

Thornhedge Inn & Stratford

Downtown Bar Harbor's newest boutique hotel! The Pathmaker will offer a fresh take on Bar Harbor &amp; Acadia National Park just a block from the water and steps from the center of town.&nbsp;A 5-minute walk from the wedding venue!

The Pathmaker Hotel

Flying into Bangor, Maine gets you one hour from the Bar Harbor Club!

Bangor International Airport

This airport is a 3-hour drive from the Bar Harbor Club but is 10 minutes from downtown Portland if you want to check it out!

Portland International Jetport

Boston Logan Airport is a 4.5 to 5- hour drive to the Bar Harbor Club, depending on traffic. Please leave yourself time for travel if you fly into or out of this airport!

Boston Logan International Airport

There is an airport in Bar Harbor that is a 20-minute drive from the venue! However, it is small and is serviced by CapeAir. This airport also includes a Seaplane ramp.

Hancock County-Bar Harbor Airport

Travel

Bar Harbor is actually named after this Island! When the tide goes out, you can cross a sandbar from the Bar Harbor Club to Bar Island! There is a mile hike on the island with historic building remnants. Please note that you can get STRANDED on this island if you're not back to the main land before the tide comes back in! Check tide schedules!

Bar Island Land Bridge

Acadia National Park is where the mountains meet the sea! There are plenty of hikes, scenic drives, and bike rides in this area. Cadillac Mountain is the first place in the US that the sunrise touches (if you start a hike at 3 am you can make it to the top for sunrise). The Beehive is a quicker hiking option as well, pictured above.

Acadia National Park

View amazing wildlife and the best natural and historical sites that Maine has to offer with Bar Harbor Whale Watch Company!

Bar Harbor Whale Watch Co

Bike around Bar Harbor - E-Bikes available!

Acadia Bike Rentals

Whether you’re exploring Cadillac Mountain’s breathtaking summit, the iconic sights of Acadia, or the quaint streets of downtown Bar Harbor, the fully narrated trolley tours offer a fun, relaxing, and informative way to see it all. Climb aboard our classic red and green trolleys or enjoy a private group experience with our expert guides.&nbsp;

Oli's Trolley Inc

This free shuttle service operates throughout Mount Desert Island, connecting various locations including Bar Harbor, Acadia National Park, and neighboring communities.&nbsp;

Island Explorer

Channel your inner Tom Read (Merrill's Pilot Father) and take to the skies to see the breathtaking views of Acadia National Park!

Scenic Flights Of Acadia

Head into the sea! There are plenty of kayaking options right from downtown Bar Harbor!

Acadia Sea Kayaking Adventures

Restaurant right next to the wedding venue and on the water.

Stewman's Lobster Pound

Warm, welcoming eatery/bar provides burgers &amp; other bar fare plus a variety of lobster dishes.

Side Street Cafe

Local pub hangout has a menu of casual seafood dishes including fish sandwiches &amp; chowder.

Thirsty Whale Tavern

French-style brasserie offering a variety of classic dishes, as well as wine, cocktails, and beer.

Brasserie LeBrun

Havana is a well-regarded fine-dining restaurant in Bar Harbor, Maine, known for its Cuban-influenced American cuisine, commitment to local and organic ingredients, and extensive wine list, which has earned it numerous awards, including the Wine Spectator Award for Excellence

Havana

Did you know that Merrill permitted a solar project in Bar Harbor in 2022? Well if you're feeling adventurous, stop by and check it out! Note you'd have to walk an access road to see it as it is not easily seen from the Knox Road...

Merrill & Thomas

Merrill & Thomas

Registry

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